(Trigger Warning; Domestic Violence descriptions below)
The room is dark, and she clutches her phone, debating whether she is overreacting. His words replay in her mind—“No one else would put up with you. Do you want to destroy this family?” Maybe he is right. Maybe it is her fault. But her gut tells her something is wrong. One day, finally after years, he snaps, he hits her, and she has no one left to talk to.
This scene isn’t uncommon. Abuse doesn’t always leave physical scars; it is often emotional, leaving victims doubting their own worth, their sanity, or even their faith. Imagine if this were your sister, mother, or friend. Wouldn’t you want someone to step in? Be that person for someone else.
Another scene that may seem alien to you, but is all too familiar to someone else:
The house is silent, and yet he feels trapped by the weight of her words. His heart pounds as he watches her fists clench, knowing that one wrong word could shatter the fragile peace in their home. He doesn’t have to be hit to feel the violence, although occasionally she does. It is in her tone, her glare, and the isolation he feels every day.
Scenes like this are all too common, yet often hidden. Around the world, countless women, men, and children live in the shadow of abuse, isolated and unsure where to turn. 1 in 3 women worldwide experience some form of abuse in their lifetime. You can help change that statistic.
Who is Hussain has made it their mission to stand up for those facing domestic violence, working to protect, shelter, and restore hope to those affected by abuse. With International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women coming up this month, now is the time for each of us to make a stand.
Domestic violence (DV) can be complex and hidden. Not every scenario of DV includes physical abuse.
Here are some signs of abuse that can reveal the truth:
- Signs of Domestic Abuse: Does your partner control where you go, who you talk to, or how you spend money? Do they belittle, intimidate, or isolate you from loved ones? Abuse often begins with subtle control, escalating over time.
- Living with a Narcissist: Narcissistic abuse often involves gaslighting, where the abuser makes you question your reality and self-worth. Learn more about signs of narcissistic abuse so you can recognize manipulation before it escalates.
- Religious Trauma and Silencing: Sometimes, abusers misuse religious teachings to keep their partner submissive or silent. Statements like “It’s your duty to forgive” or “You’re going against faith by leaving” can be used to maintain control. Remember, true faith promotes respect and compassion, not control.
You’re not alone—and neither are they, if you want to help.
To combat this widespread issue, in Texas, Who is Hussain has joined forces with the Texas Muslim Women’s Foundation to support the Hussain Ibn Ali Sanctuary, a new initiative providing housing for senior women who have endured domestic abuse. This sanctuary is more than a shelter—it is a place for these women to reclaim their lives, far from the reach of their abusers, and find solace in a caring community. Through the sanctuary, these women find the safety and dignity they deserve after years of trauma. Our team regularly spends time with them, whether through yoga sessions, assisting with errands, or simply offering some company.
Down in Miami, our team is offering a lifeline to women and children fleeing violence by working alongside Nur-Center. Through this collaboration, they’re providing food, essentials, and sanitary products to women and their children, making the first steps toward a new life just a little easier. Who is Hussain Miami has also set up “Drop Boxes” across mosques for donations of gently used clothes and shoes. These contributions go directly to shelters like Women in Distress, supporting survivors as they rebuild their lives.
Getting out of an abusive situation takes courage, and professional support is essential. If you, or someone you know, is experiencing abuse, reaching out to counselling services can be transformative. BetterHelp offers accessible online counselling, while resources like Khalil Center offer culturally informed mental health care grounded in faith.
How You Can Help:
- Speak Out: Talk about domestic violence in your community, on social media, and with friends. Silence can often be an abuser’s best weapon, so let’s make awareness our strongest defence.
- Donate: Financial contributions to organisations like Who is Hussain, local shelters, or counselling services can provide immediate resources to those in need.
- Volunteer: Whether it’s helping to sort donations, preparing food, or offering emotional support, there are countless ways to make a difference. You could donate warm clothes not being used, or even help make care packages. Contact your local Who is Hussain chapter to find out more.
Together, we can help end the cycle of violence. If you suspect someone is suffering, don’t turn away. Stand up, speak out, and support a world where everyone feels safe and respected.
Don’t wait long—get involved today. Your action, big or small, could be life-changing for someone in need.
