For over 20 years, I have worked as a registered nurse in learning disabilities, supporting individuals with autism and other neurodevelopmental conditions. During that time, I have seen first-hand how often people are defined by what they struggle with, rather than recognised for the amazing qualities they offer.
Autism Awareness Day offers us an opportunity to pause and reflect, not only on understanding autism, but also on how we, as a society, respond to ‘difference’. Do we simply acknowledge differences, or do we truly value them? This question sits at the heart of the work carried out by Who Is Hussain, a global charity inspired by the legacy of Hussain ibn Ali, whose message calls on us to serve humanity with compassion, dignity, and justice.
In clinical settings, autism is often described through diagnostic criteria such as communication differences, social challenges, and patterns of behaviour. These descriptions are important in ensuring the right support is in place. However, they do not define an individual.
Over the years, I have come to recognise that many of the characteristics we describe as “symptoms” can also reflect strengths. I have worked with individuals whose honesty is unwavering, who notice details others miss, and who feel deeply about fairness and justice. These are not deficits. They are qualities, and yet too often, they are overlooked.
One of the most consistent qualities I have observed is honesty. Many autistic individuals communicate directly, without the filters and layers of social masking that often shape everyday conversation. While this can sometimes be misunderstood and acknowledged from a defensive lens, causing the individual to conform and move away from the innate pureness and sincerity they possess results in anxiety and distress.
Truthfulness is not always easy, but it is essential. It is one of the defining values in the life of Hussain ibn Ali, whose stand was rooted in integrity. He chose truth, even when it came at great cost.
Another striking quality is a strong awareness of fairness and loyalty. The people with autism that I have worked with have a strong sense of values and ethics by which they wish to live their lives. They can become distressed by situations that are simply unjust and express loyalty within such situations. This is sometimes interpreted as rigidity, but it should be understood as a deep commitment to what is right and to standing by their values and beliefs.
There is also a common misconception that autistic individuals lack empathy. In reality, what I have witnessed over many years is not an absence of empathy but a difference in how it is expressed and deeply felt, though not always outwardly visible to others. What is perhaps more concerning is how we respond. Too often, we offer sympathy instead of empathy. Sympathy can create a subtle divide; it places us at a distance, looking in. In doing so, it can unintentionally erode the sense of being truly understood, leaving the autistic individual’s own empathy unseen and unacknowledged. This compassion is not limited to one form of expression. It is rooted in sincerity and intention. Recognising this allows us to better understand and appreciate the individuals we support.
Many autistic individuals demonstrate a strong ability to focus, particularly in areas of interest. This can lead to deep knowledge, creativity, and a unique perspective of the world. In a fast-paced environment, where attention is often divided, this level of focus is a strength. It challenges us to reconsider what we value and to recognise that different ways of thinking can enrich our communities. It is equally important to acknowledge the resilience shown by many autistic individuals. Navigating environments that are not always designed with neurodiversity in mind can present daily challenges. Despite this, individuals continue to engage, adapt, and participate. This resilience is often quiet, but it is significant.
The legacy of Imam Hussain is one of perseverance and dignity in the face of adversity. While the contexts are vastly different, the principle of remaining steadfast is one that resonates universally. The work of Who Is Hussain is rooted in a simple but powerful message: to serve humanity, regardless of background, belief, or circumstance. Autism Awareness Day aligns closely with this message. It reminds us that service is not only about providing support, but it is also about recognising dignity. It is about ensuring that individuals are seen, heard, and valued.
Moving forward requires more than awareness. It requires us to listen with openness, to challenge our assumptions, and to recognise strengths alongside needs. It calls on us to create environments that are inclusive, respectful, and compassionate.
After 20 years in learning disability nursing, my understanding of autism has evolved. I no longer see it solely through a clinical lens. I see individuals with strengths such as honesty, a strong sense of justice, compassion, focus, and resilience.
Autism Awareness Day is an opportunity to reflect on how we respond to ‘difference’. Through the inspiration of Hussain ibn Ali and the work of Who Is Hussain, we are reminded that true service lies in recognising the value of every human being, not just in their challenges but also in their strengths. In doing so, we move closer to building a society rooted in compassion, dignity, and justice for all.
Farzana
Specialist learning disability / neurodevelopmental nurse & social worker
